Logging Off to Tune In

There’s no denying it, social media has woven itself into nearly every corner of our lives. From the moment we wake up to when our heads hit the pillow at night, our screens beckon with notifications, updates, messages, and endless scrolling. As a small business owner, I know all too well the pressure to stay active, engaged, and visible online. Between promoting services, sharing photos, responding to messages, and keeping up with the latest trends, it often feels like being present online has become a full-time job in itself.

But somewhere along the way, I realized something important: the more time I spend online, the less time I’m actually living my life. The less time I’m truly with my kids, with my friends, and with myself. I’m not just talking about physical presence - I’m talking about real, undivided attention. The kind of presence where you're not checking your phone every few minutes or half-listening because you're crafting the perfect caption in your head.

So this summer, I’ve made a decision. I’m unplugging.

I’m removing Facebook and Instagram from my phone. I’ll still be using them to post announcements or share the occasional update but only from my computer. That means I won’t be available via direct message on those platforms. If you need to reach me quickly, feel free to send me a text (contact info on my website). Otherwise, I welcome your email, and I’ll get back to you within a couple of days (unless it’s the weekend—then I’ll respond once I catch up after Monday).

This isn’t just about creating boundaries for myself. It’s also about modeling healthy habits for my kids. My son is now 13 and has a phone of his own. I can’t ask him to put down his device if I can’t do the same. My daughter is 10 and watching everything I do, absorbing how I engage with the world. This is a chance to show them and remind myself that real connection happens in the quiet moments. Around the dinner table. On a bike ride. During a late-night heart-to-heart. In laughter, hugs, and shared experiences, not in comments, likes, or emojis!

I want to teach them and re-teach myself that I don’t need to capture every moment to prove it happened. Some of the best memories are the ones that live in your heart, not on your feed.

Thank you for understanding and supporting this choice. I’m excited to spend a slower, more intentional summer truly connected to what matters most.

Wishing you all a joyful, present, and peaceful season ahead.

Warmly,

Miss Amy 🌸